By adding these tips to others you may already have discovered you’ll be able to round out your speech and show your guests that you’re happy and appreciative of your bride.
- Don’t get brave and try to recite from memory
Keep a copy of your speech on you at all times. Refer to it when necessary. This is not a test of your memory and you could make some big mistakes if you forget names or people to thank. It is better to read your speech and be forgiven for nerves than it is to leave someone out and have to earn their forgiveness.
- Don’t repeat yourself
Don’t keep repeating any points. Say them once and move on. It’ll bore your guests to hear the same thing over and over. There’s really no need to become repetitive with your speech, you don’t need to flesh it out for time.
- Don’t go on too long
Keep your speech under 3 minutes if you can. This might seem easy but time can draw on when public speaking. Don’t write pages and pages, say the important stuff and get on with the night. By following the tip above you’ll be able to limit your speech to an acceptable time. Looking up to see guests falling asleep is not something you want to experience.
- Don’t mention previous relationships
You don’t want to offend your bride, her family or anyone else in the room. Previous relationships – even when comparing how great your bride is in comparison should be avoided at all costs. Pretend this is your one and only relationship and nothing else has come before.
- Don’t embarrass the bride
If you intend to include humor, then don’t embarrass your bride. Whatever you do, keep it complimentary for her and don’t let things get out of hand. This is her day too and she should feel like it is the best day of her life. By embarrassing and offending her you will start your marriage on the wrong foot.
Including these extra tips with any you have already discovered will give you a complete and acceptable wedding speech that will reflect positively on yourself, your bride and your family. It’s important to offer some sincerity in your words and focus on being honest and respectful.
